Tips For Better Sex


Tips For Sex
Like other normal functions, Sex, is also very important process of our body. The functions, like the proper digestion of meals, can be upset by several factors like as similar, such things can also happens to the sexual function which may be disturbed by a whole lot of factors. These may not necessarily involve the anatomy but instead it’s the mind, which makes the difference.

If sex is allowed to happen naturally, in a relaxed way, our bodies will respond normally without any conscious effort on our part.

There are a many problem or situations that can upset the normal sexual responsiveness, most of them, fortunately, can be helped in a positive manner by understanding on our part. Here are a few of the most common amongst them and ways to improve.

Lack of Information About Sex
Sex, despite being one of the most commonly discussed topic in most of the people and also in media, there is a surprising lack of correct information about the misconceptions of about the sex and queries of general people.

Felling fear about Sex and its consequences
1. Fear of pregnancy; Fear of pain; Fear of being caught / heard / or interrupted.
2. Performance Anxiety – Fear of failing to perform well.
3. Fear of losing control (during orgasm) and or becoming vulnerable.
4. Looking unattractive during the climax.
5. Bad feelings about yourself or your body like, feeling that the body is unattractive. Feelings that I am not successful (low self-esteem).

Problems in Relationship
You should be cool minded and emotions like anger/resentment against the partner should be resolved as it can decrease the performance and pleasure while having sex.

Unsuitable circumstances
Normally Good Sex requires a relaxed mind and body. So, don’t be so quickie. Too much of a hurry, tiredness or preoccupation can rob you of the pleasures of Sex.

Performance anxiety
This is one of the most significant problems in the way of Good Sex. We often forget that Sex is something that comes naturally to all of us; instead, we seem to view ourselves as performers who have to complete an act to perfection.

Avoid spectatoring
Remember that you are not a spectator of an act, you are the act itself, and you are the participant. You are not there to critically analyze it and constantly to measure your efficiency. You are there to ‘Let Go’ and enjoy.

Enjoy the interaction and don’t aim or worry about the performance. Enjoy caressing, touching your partner (anywhere on the body). It’s nice to touch and feel close to your partner.

Break the cycle of watching / worrying / and further reducing the response.

Improve communication
Between both partners communication is a vital part of having Good Sex. Remember this, “Sex is as much between the Ears, as it is, between the Legs”. Good communication with your partner can make the difference between having Sex ‘for the sake of it’ and having ‘a really good time’.

Communicate verbally/non-verbally. Tell your partner where else do you want, to be touched-how much and for how long. Tell him/her when it’s pleasurable and also when it hurts. Relax pleasantly and enjoy this without worrying about the ultimate. Enjoy in different positions, sometimes – female superior positions can be an easy position.

Remove Misunderstanding
A misunderstanding between the partners can really affect the sexual relationship badly. The clearer both are about each other and Sex the better it is. A feeling that something important needs to be sorted out before going further should not be overlooked.

Some Common Misconceptions About Sex
The penis can become erect at very early stage, especially in a young man. This does not mean that he is necessarily ready for intercourse and he may start too soon – before his partner feels ready. She may become anxious as she feels she is keeping him waiting.

Vaginal lubrication may remain hidden especially in lying down positions. Both partners may assume she is not responding, when in fact she is. Penis gives a more obvious signal, which the vagina may not.

Arousal comes in waves in both the man and the woman. This is normal. The decline doesn’t mean that something is wrong.

Premature ejaculation (coming too soon, before the partner is ready) is normal in young men, particularly when very much aroused. Control comes with learning and practice.

Many women may not have orgasm but are fully responsive. This doesn’t mean that they are frigid. Early sexual relationships may not have orgasms in women. Partners need not worry. Anxiety further inhibits it.

The husband snoring one minute after ejaculating can produce resentment if the wife is still feeling the need for intimacy. The men have their refractory period (time during which sexual arousal is difficult) very fast. Woman need not feel upset (as if being used as a sleeping pill) – you can wake up your husband sometimes and let him know.

Tips for better sex & overcoming Impotency :-
1. Herbal preparations “ Vajikarana Medicines” are effective to rejuvenate the reproductive organs.
2. Massaging the body with herbal oil, which gives a relief from physical exertion and also acts as aphrodisiac.
3. Yoga and Meditation to overcome mental exertion and to cope up with stress.
4. Sound sleep is must. Sleep at least for 8 hours a day.
5. Avoiding the consumption of alcohol, tobacco, heroin, Gutka & other Narcotics.
6. Aerobics & light exercise regularly is a way for physical and mental calmness.
7. Avoid hot, spicy and bitter foods.
8. Favor sweets, milk products, nuts, onions, garlic.
9. Add little ghee in your diet.